So let me make something clear, marriage is not my lifetime goal. Yes, I’m writing letters and thoughts to my future husband but if it never happens I’m good. I know some people who live to be married and miss out on life. As a 30 year old single woman I am more focused on having fun and exploring this world we live in. I’ve had times when marriage was all I desired, it made me bitter! I choose to love every aspect of my life…including my singlehood.